How Video Calls Bring Loved Ones Closer Daily

We all know how wonderful it feels to hear a loved one’s voice. But being able to see them—even from miles away—takes connection to a whole new level. For older adults, especially those living alone or at a distance from family, video calling isn’t just a convenience—it’s a lifeline. In today’s digital age, learning to video call is like learning to use the telephone once was: it’s a simple skill that opens the door to stronger relationships, more joy, and a deeper sense of belonging.

At Senior U, we believe that no one should feel left out or left behind because of technology. Whether you’re new to video calls or just need a little refresher, this blog will guide you through the why and how of staying connected through screens—without frustration and with plenty of heart.

The Power of Face-to-Face Connection

To begin with, let’s talk about why video calling matters. It’s more than just a fun tech trick—it has real benefits for your emotional health, mental clarity, and overall well-being.

1. Reduces Feelings of Loneliness

As we age, it’s not uncommon to experience social isolation, especially if we live far from family or friends. However, being able to see your grandchild’s giggle or your friend’s smile over video calls instantly lifts your spirits. Research shows that regular face-to-face interaction helps reduce depression and anxiety, even if that interaction happens through a screen.

2. Strengthens Relationships

While phone calls and texts are lovely, being able to see someone while talking creates a deeper bond. You can pick up on facial expressions, hand gestures, and those little moments of laughter that make a conversation feel more human. Furthermore, loved ones will feel more involved in your life—and vice versa—when they can see your face during updates, milestones, and day-to-day chats.

3. Encourages Active Participation

From virtual birthday parties and family game nights to book clubs and religious services, video calling allows you to be present, even when you can’t physically attend. The more you engage, the more fulfilled and connected you feel—helping you stay mentally and socially active.

4. Provides Convenient Access to Care

Another reason to embrace video calling is the rise of telehealth services. Many doctors, therapists, and support groups now offer appointments via video calls, making it easier and safer to receive care without leaving home. This has become especially important since the COVID-19 pandemic and continues to be a preferred method of healthcare delivery for many.

Common Misconceptions About Video Calling

Before we dive into the “how-to” part, let’s clear up a few common worries that may be holding you back.

“I’m too old to learn this.”
You’re never too old to learn something new. In fact, older adults are mastering tech skills at record rates—and thriving because of it.
“I’ll mess something up.”
Making mistakes is part of learning. Plus, most video apps are designed to be simple and intuitive.
“It’s too expensive.”
Most video calling tools are free, and if you already own a smartphone, tablet, or computer, you’ve got everything you need.

Now that we’ve addressed the “why,” let’s jump into the “how.”

What You Need to Get Started

To begin video calling, you’ll need three main things:

A device – This could be:
- A smartphone (like an iPhone or Android)
- A tablet (like an iPad)
- A laptop or desktop computer with a webcam
An internet connection – A strong Wi-Fi connection will give you the best video and sound quality.
A video calling app – Many options are available, and most are free.

Now, let’s look at which app might be best for you.

Choosing the Right Video Calling App

Although many video platforms exist, here are some of the easiest and most popular for seniors:

💬 FaceTime (Apple Devices Only)

Works on iPhone, iPad, and Mac
Already built into your device
Great for quick one-on-one chats

💻 Zoom

Great for larger family gatherings or group events
Can be used on any device
Offers a simple “Join with a link” feature—no account needed to join

📞 Skype

Long-time video chat platform
Works on phones, tablets, and computers
Allows for both individual and group calls

🌐 Google Meet

Great option if you use Gmail or have a Google account
Simple to use and accessible via email links

📱 Facebook Messenger

If you’re already using Facebook, Messenger is an easy way to start a video call with friends or family directly through the app

Once you’ve chosen an app, it’s time to learn how to make a call.

Tips for a Comfortable Video Call

To ensure your calls are enjoyable and stress-free, try these quick tips:

Use a stand or prop your device up so you don’t have to hold it
Sit in a well-lit area so others can see you clearly
Test your volume beforehand to make sure you can hear and be heard
Practice with a trusted friend so you can get used to the steps together

The more often you use video calling, the easier and more natural it will feel.

Protecting Your Privacy

Just like in-person interactions, it’s important to be cautious online. Fortunately, a few smart habits can keep you protected:

Only accept video calls from people you know
Don’t share personal information during a video call unless you trust the source
Keep your device software up to date for added security
Be cautious of links or messages from strangers

With these safety tips in mind, you can confidently connect without worry.

Making the Most of Your Video Calls

Once you’ve mastered the basics, video calling can become a fun and meaningful part of your routine. Here are a few creative ways to make your calls even more engaging:

Celebrate birthdays or holidays together
Light candles, sing songs, or even enjoy a meal “together” across screens.
Host a virtual coffee chat or happy hour
Share stories, updates, or just a few laughs with friends from afar.
Read books to grandkids
Hold the book up to the screen and make it interactive—it’s a special bonding experience.
Join an online group or club
From Bible study to trivia nights, there are many virtual spaces to connect with others who share your interests.

Don’t Let Distance Divide You

At the heart of it all, video calling is about connection—real, human connection that keeps us grounded, happy, and engaged. While it may feel unfamiliar at first, with just a bit of practice, it can become a cherished part of your everyday life.

Whether you’re checking in on family, celebrating milestones, or simply saying “hi,” video calling brings joy and togetherness into every corner of your world.

And remember—Senior U is here to support you. If you ever get stuck or want more guidance, reach out. We’re happy to help you bridge the gap and bring loved ones closer, one video call at a time.